Q: Sometimes, as it relates to intimacy, I sense my spouse’s resistance. Can a session with you help with this?
A: Sometimes, it’s just easier, when a third party becomes involved (that would be me), as it takes the pressure off of both partners. The exercises I engage you in can better ease you and your partner into a more relaxed and open space. Your partner’s resistance is also a reflection, to some extent, of your own. I will guide you both all the way, while also holding space for the both of you. Collectively, we are all a little guarded in the heart center. We fear being vulnerable because deep down inside us, at a cellular level, is that memory of separation (from our God-selves)………”we’re not worthy”…………. Because of our fear of vulnerability, we feel we have to control everything, so as to not get hurt-the ego desperately wants to protect. When working with me, neither partner will be in total control, and this does, most often, foster more relaxation and openness. It may take a little work and some practice, but with some commitment, intimacy should improve. Sometimes I give homework to facilitate the process.
